A person who I admire for their effective communication and listening skills has been a former mentor who I got to work with many years ago as I started my professional career in early childhood. She was always willing to listen my accomplishments or failures. Her communication skills were very clear and practical. As I got to know her better, she became very persuasive in her conversations with me regarding college. I am glad, I listened to her. It is so important to have someone who you can talk and express yourself knowing that they are actually listening to you. I have learned so much about my communications and listening skills, which I have gotten better every time. I used to be very shy and not comfortable talking in public, nevertheless, standing in front of people, but as I started working for the Head Start program many years ago, my mentor would do parent activities and have me do the parent workshops. For me it was a learning experience, I have gotten better at but still get nervous in the start. Something I learned from her was how she transcribed the message to other people through her words, body language and how others listened. As I work with families and children, is very important for me to be the best communicator for them, effective, respect and humble.
Great post Ana, I like the image that you used in respect to communication. Seems like you had a great mentor, it goes to show how important mentor ship is in our lives, and we should become mentors as well if we have the chance. You were able to learn from her and improve on your personal communication skills, which is great.
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ReplyDeleteIt is very important to be around positive people whom you can emulate, and this is quite evident in your mentor. She was a real model for you, who demonstrated the kind of professional behavior that play significant roles in your life, thus, assisted you in the development of your identity.
I like your quote. It does point to the importance of building a relationship of trust and respect. It sounds like you really value both. I look forward to reading your post.
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